What if your skin could talk?
Maybe I would ask you to calm down a little. Maybe a hug. Maybe something simpler: a balm that accompanies you on cold days, in small gestures, in the areas that need it most. You don’t need to have “perfect” skin to take care of yourself. It is enough to have skin. And love. And a simple recipe that allows you to create a daily ritual without toxins, without unrealistic promises, without gender and without guilt.
Today we bring you just that: a homemade recipe for a multi-use balm, designed for dry lips, hands that work a lot and delicate areas such as elbows, heels or skin irritated by friction or the weather. A natural, vegan (if you choose the right wax) and adaptable product. Because care, like love, is not unique or fixed. It transforms.
What makes a multi-purpose balm special?
The beauty of this type of formula is that they are simple, honest and effective. They don’t need an endless list of ingredients or flashy packaging. They work because they are well thought out: they seal in hydration, instantly soften, protect from wind and cold, and provide relief in moments where other textures cannot reach.
And yes: they also work for small, freshly made tattoos, chafing on thighs, skin irritated by masks… See? The “multipurpose” thing was not just for marketing.
Ingredients and why we choose them 🧪
- Shea butter: ultra nutritious, rich in vitamins A and E. Protects, regenerates and softens. Ideal for sensitive skin and areas prone to cracking.
- Calendula or jojoba oil: the first is soothing and anti-inflammatory; the second, balancing and non-comedogenic. You can choose according to your need.
- Vegetable or beeswax: gives consistency to the balm and helps form a protective film. If you want it vegan, use candelilla or carnauba wax.
- Vitamin E (tocopherol): antioxidant and natural preservative. Extends the life of the product and cares for the skin.
- Gentle essential oil (optional): lavender, chamomile or rose. Just 1-2 drops if you want aroma. It is not mandatory, especially if you will use it in sensitive areas.
Homemade multipurpose balm recipe
Approx. quantity: 30 ml (ideal for a pocket jar)
Duration: up to 6 months if stored in a cool, dry place
🧴 Ingredients:
- 10 g shea butter
- 5 g of calendula or jojoba oil
- 5 g of vegetable wax or beeswax
- 1 capsule or 3 drops of vitamin E
- 1–2 drops of essential oil (optional and only if there is no sensitivity)
🛠 Utensils:
- Spoons or precision scale
- Small glass jar (approx. 30 ml)
- Heat-resistant saucepan or bowl
- Spatula or spoon
- Bain-marie or low heat
Step by step 🔥
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Prepare the space and utensils
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Clean your hands well and disinfect the container and utensils. Although we do not work with water, maintaining good hygiene is key to avoiding contamination.
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Melts wax and butter
In a container in a water bath, place the wax, shea butter and vegetable oil. Heat slowly until everything is completely melted. Don’t boil, just melt.
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Mix with care
Once melted, remove from heat. Add the vitamin E and, if you decide to use it, the essential oil. Stir well to integrate the ingredients.
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Pack before it cools
Carefully pour the mixture into your glass jar. Let it sit without a lid until it completely solidifies.
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Label and save
You can write the date and content for future reference. Store it in a dry place, away from direct sunlight. You don’t need a refrigerator.
How to use?
Take a small amount with a clean finger and apply it to the desired area: lips, knuckles, cuticles, chafing… You can use it as many times a day as you need. It is not sticky, does not leave a shiny film and blends into the skin easily.
Rainbow Tip: you can also use it as a post-waxing balm or to moisturize tattoos when they are healing. It’s truly versatile.
Can it be customized?
Of course! This recipe is the base. Can:
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Swap the shea butter for mango butter (lighter)
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Use rosehip oil if you are looking for extra healing
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Make a more solid version for summer, increasing the wax
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Add a touch of natural mica for a discreet glow effect
The important thing is that you know your skin and adjust according to what it asks for. And if you make a mistake… nothing happens. You will learn for next time.
What if I don’t have vegetable wax?
Nothing happens. You can use pure butters like shea or cocoa, which already have a solid consistency. Of course, the result will be softer and perhaps somewhat less protective. Experiment until you find your ideal formula.
Taking care of yourself is not vanity, it is resistance
For many LGTBIQ+ people, self-care has been a way of surviving. Creating your own balm may seem like a small thing, but it isn’t. It is choosing what to put on your skin, how you speak when you look at yourself and what gestures sustain your identity day to day.
There is nothing superficial about taking care of what sustains you.
Next installment…
A nourishing night mask with avocado, oats and essential oils. Ideal for pampering yourself before bed, whether after a walk, a date or a day on the couch and watching TV shows.
