How to hide Grindr on your mobile: iPhone and Android, step by step

You can have Grindr without anyone who picks up your phone knowing. For that, no weird tricks are needed: just four settings that come standard in the app and on your phone.

Quick answer: to hide Grindr, change the icon to a discreet one in the app settings (under Security), enable the PIN, remove the notification previews, and, if your phone allows it, move the app to a hidden folder: Hide and require Face ID on iPhone, Private Space on Android 15, or Secure Folder on Samsung.

There are many reasons for not wanting it to be seen that you have Grindr. You may not have told your family yet, you might share a flat or tablet, or your family might take your phone “to see a photo.” You might also have an ex who knows your code or live in an environment where being discovered has consequences. None of those reasons need justification. Your privacy is yours.

As a computer expert and president of the Rainbow eSafe Association, I explain what really works, in order and without technical jargon.

1. Change the Grindr icon to a discreet one

Grindr launched the discreet icon in February 2020, a free feature for all users. It replaces the app logo with another icon that does not reveal it at first glance.

Here’s how to activate it

Tap your profile picture on Grindr.
Go to Settings (the gear icon).
Scroll down to the Security section.
Tap Discreet App Icon and choose the icon.

Keep in mind that the icon changes, but the app name still appears in some system places, like the app list in settings. That’s why it’s advisable to combine it with the following steps.

2. Set a PIN for the app

If someone opens the app, the PIN is what stops them.

Tap your profile picture and go to Settings.
In Security, tap PIN.
Enable Enable PIN feature and create a 4-digit code.
If you want, enable Face ID on iPhone or fingerprint or facial recognition on Android afterwards.

Use a PIN different from your phone’s. If someone knows your unlock code, it shouldn’t also work to enter Grindr.

3. Don’t let notifications give you away

This is the most common mistake: a message that appears on the lock screen just when someone is looking.

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On iPhone: go to Settings > Notifications > Grindr > Show Previews and choose Never. If you prefer not to receive alerts, disable Allow Notifications.
On Android: the names change depending on the brand, but it is usually found in Settings > Notifications, in the lock screen section. Choose to hide sensitive content or remove Grindr notifications.

4. Hide Grindr in a private folder on your phone

Here the phone itself comes into play.

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On iPhone (iOS 18 or later)

Press and hold the Grindr icon on the home screen.
Choose Require Face ID (or Touch ID or code).
Select Hide and require Face ID and confirm with Hide app.

The app disappears from the home screen and goes to the Hidden folder, at the end of the app library. It can only be opened with your face, your fingerprint, or your code. Apple warns that the app name still appears in some places, like Settings > Apps > Hidden Apps, usage time, battery, and your purchase history.

On Android 15 or later (Private Space)

Go to Settings > Security and Privacy > Private Space.
Tap Set Up and log in with a Google account.
Choose Use a different lock and create a PIN, pattern, or fingerprint different from your phone’s.
Install Grindr inside that space.

The space appears at the end of the app drawer. When you lock it, its apps disappear from the menu, recent apps, and settings.

On Samsung (Secure Folder)

Go to Settings > Biometrics and Security > Secure Folder and accept the terms.
Log in with your Samsung account and choose a lock method.
Open the Secure Folder, tap Add Apps and choose Grindr.
To also hide the folder, go to the three-dot menu, go to Settings and disable Show icon on apps screen.

5. The traces that almost no one checks

Even if the app is hidden, Grindr can leave traces outside the phone:

The download history. On iPhone you can hide it from your purchase list: go to App Store, tap your photo, go to Apps, swipe Grindr to the left and tap Hide. If you share an Apple or Google account with someone else, that person can see what you download. The safest thing is to have an account just for you.
The email. If you registered with an email that someone else can read, Grindr messages will end up there. Use one that only you open.
The payments. If you pay for a subscription, the charge appears in the app store receipts and in the bank statement. Keep this in mind if you share a bank account.

The counterargument that must be acknowledged

Some people think that hiding Grindr is going back into the closet through the back door, and that being brave would mean not hiding anything. I understand the argument, and I wish we lived in a world where no one had to hide a dating app.

But visibility is a personal decision, not an obligation, and each person makes it when they are ready and safe. Hiding an app is not being ashamed of who you are: it is deciding who knows and when. As long as there are families that do not accept, controlling partners, and hostile environments, these tools are digital self-defense.

If the problem is someone watching you

If you hide Grindr because someone checks your phone, demands your passwords, or controls you, the problem is not the app. That is control, and it can come from an ex, a family member, someone you share a flat with, or someone you just met.

If there are threats or messages you want to report, take screenshots with the date and time visible. The screenshot is a good first piece of evidence, but it is only the first step: for it to be useful in a report, you must certify the authenticity of digital evidence. At the Rainbow eSafe Association, we have tools to do this.

You may be interested: Can they spy on you through Grindr or TheBlowers? Your ex doesn’t need to hack you · Safety on Grindr: 2026 guide to dating without risks · We teach you how to protect your iPhone so they can’t spy on you

Summary to take away

1. Discreet icon

Grindr > Settings > Security > Discreet App Icon. It’s free.

2. Own PIN

Different from your phone’s, so no one can enter the app.

3. Notifications without previews

So no message appears on the lock screen.

4. Hidden folder

Hidden on iPhone, Private Space on Android 15, and Secure Folder on Samsung.

5. Traces outside the phone

Download history, email, and payments.

Frequently asked questions

Is the discreet icon of Grindr paid?

No. Grindr offers it for free to all users since 2020.

If I hide Grindr on iPhone, will I still receive messages?

Yes, the app works the same. To prevent them from showing on the lock screen, disable the preview of their notifications.

Can someone know that I have Grindr even if it’s hidden?

It can be seen in the download history, in system settings, or in receipts if you pay for a subscription. That’s why it’s advisable to also check those traces.